Monday, September 29, 2014

Blue Collar Monday

What is it about blue collar men that fascinates me and thousands of other women?
I suppose I'm the type that loves a man who works with his hands. There is something so sexy about a guy who can fix stuff, or build stuff! Hard work, the sweat on their brow, figures and numbers, calibrations, and ratios.

Thump. Thump.

For those that share an attraction to the men that help build our world and keep it running, I believe we're hardwired to seek out the intellect, and muscle required.

Mechanics, electricians, carpenters, and the like hold a special place in my heart. Beyond the dirt and grim, an intelligent mind lurks. Men who aren't afraid to get their hands dirty are by far the sexiest the male species has to offer.

Enjoy the images and don't forget to thank the men who help build our world and keep it running.

Happy Monday!!!!

Saturday, September 27, 2014

Win a $20 gift card on @Eva_Lefoy's DOM OF DESTRUCTION Book Tour

Welcome to Sensuous Promo’s DOM OF DESTRUCTION Book Tour.

Finding the right Dom is what it’s all about by Eva Lefoy

Finding the Dom that understands you, that loves you, that cares for you. One able to meet your needs but respect your limits. One comfortable in and proficient in his or her role. But more than that, it has to be a person that clicks with you. That you’re attracted to and you get along with outside of the bedroom. Too many times us humans fall into bed and then try to just as easily fall into a relationship, only to find out that while the sex works between us, the relationship never will.

In Dom of Destruction, Gar and Brian fall into a scene in Kink Club Blues. Brian is sub-curious, impulsive and eager. He gets a taste of what he thinks he wants and then … he only desires more. He goes back to Gar only to find he must negotiate his way to the top of the sub pile, an obstacle he hadn’t even considered. Along the way, he learns more about his intended Dom, Gar, and figures out that in the end, Doms and subs are still just people. They often come with unresolved issues from the past.

Later in the story, Brian and Gar have sex at Brian’s condo and start navigating the murky waters of a fledgling relationship. As always, even if the sex is good, the relationship has to stand on its own. At the end of the story, we see Brian suffer through a bit of depression. When Gar responds the way he does, we as readers know these two men are firmly on the right track.

Dom of Destruction, book III in the Love Hurts series:

When new and impulsive sub, Brian is injured in a bad scene, the incident opens old wounds for his sometimes-Dom, Gar. While doling out revenge, Gar must come to terms with his fear of relationships and learn the shocking truth about his former lover, Angel.

Meanwhile, Paul’s uncontrolled jealousy of Brian comes to light and Geoffrey threatens to cancel their engagement if he won’t get his anger under control. In different ways the aftermath of the sadistic Dom’s destructive force puts these four men on the track to future happiness, but some will suffer more scars than others.
Warning: The MC in this story is baited into a scene of BDSM play and is abused. 

EXCERPT – Gar and Brian negotiate:
Gar reached out to steady him, and got glared at for his efforts. “Look, Brian. I don’t want to argue. I thought we were having a great time…”

“We were. But I remembered why I left the club in the first place. Gar, I don’t want to be Mr. Thursday night to you. If that’s all I am, then go, and I’ll find myself another Dom.”

That did it. Gar crowded into Brian’s space and backed him against the desk. “Don’t you even think about being with anybody else. I’m the one who’s gonna take care of you the way you need. I don’t want you having anything to do with these other bastards. I mean it. I won’t stand to see you hurt again.”

Brian, to his credit, stood his ground and didn’t back down. Not even an inch. If Brian hadn’t spent most of his life as a top, he probably would have acted differently. Gar hated to admit it, but he liked Brian’s spunk. When it wasn’t coming close to literally causing his death.

“Then give us—this—whatever this is between us a chance.”

“I am.”

“I mean exclusively.”

He swallowed the lump stuck in his throat. Damned if he’d tell Brian he hadn’t been able to see a single one of his subs all of last week. He wasn’t ready for that kind of honesty. “Brian…”

“I don’t share well, Gar. Ask Geoffrey if you don’t believe me. If you aren’t willing to have me as your only sub then this is over, now.”

“That’s not fair.” He fisted his hands, the thought of ringing sense into Brian becoming more alluring by the second.

“Too bad.” Brian shoved at Gar’s chest and Gar moved back. Not because he wanted to go, or Brian really had the strength to make him, but because he wouldn’t allow Brian to hurt himself, even accidentally. “According to Geoffrey, the subs make the rules. If you really are a Dom and want to fulfill my needs, then you’ll want to fulfill this one, too.”

He sucked in a long breath. The hell. Is he questioning my Domhood? You’ve got to be kidding. He’s still a newbie sub in diapers. “If I wasn’t such a well-established Dom I wouldn’t have so many
subs under me.”

“If you weren’t so afraid of having a relationship, you wouldn’t need all those subs to dilute your attention.”

The words stabbed straight though Gar’s heart and left a gaping hole as an exit wound. What the hell does he know about my needs? It’s not like I’m afraid, damn it. He started for the door and stopped dead in his tracks as an image of Angel popped into his mind. The picture burned his soul, calling him a liar. You beat a man half to death for hurting him. Get back there, you chicken-shit bastard. He turned around and fought the urge to get down on his knees and beg. “Please, Brian. Promise me you won’t seek another Dom.”

Brian took a couple of relaxed steps forward until he stood toe to toe with him. “I promise I won’t seek another Dom ’til next week.”

He opened his mouth to speak but Brian hushed him by pressing a finger over his lips.

“I will come to the club on Thursday and if you haven’t been with any other sub, then we’re fine. If you have…then it’s time for me to find someone else. That’s my deal.”


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Eva Lefoy writes and reads all kinds of romance, and is a certified Trekkie. She’s also terribly addicted to chocolate, tea, and hiking. One of these days, she’ll figure out the meaning of life, quit her job, and go travel the galaxy. Until then, she’s writing down all her dirty thoughts for the sake of future explorers.

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Thursday, September 18, 2014

Can I steal from your paycheck, too?

Piracy is not a victimless crime. 

From the outside looking in, one would believe published authors are wealthy or well off. Let me tell you, that is untrue.

Many, if not thousands of authors work outside of the home and their writing. I am one of those. To be honest, I couldn't live off of what I make writing alone, and neither can the rest of us.

So, what's the big deal? Each and every time someone shares or downloads our books for free is yet another dollar that will never reach our accounts, our family. To those giving away the hard work of another, please tell me, when can I start taking from you? How would you feel if when you got your paycheck that you not only look forward to, but need, and find out its short???

I suspect you wouldn't like it one bit. Do you have any clue what it feels like to have your hard work pop up on various pirate sites? Let me tell you, it hurts.

First, there are literally thousands of books out there that are FREE. I've even wrote a couple myself. There is not a shortage of genuinely FREE books to read. So why do you do this???

You wouldn't want someone to STEAL from you?? Would you? What makes you believe that pirating books is not a crime? It is a CRIME.

If you have any respect or love for the authors you enjoy reading...STOP DOING THIS! You are hurting them!

The best advice I can give at this point is this, "If you wouldn't want it done to you, don't do it to someone else."

As a firm believer in Karma, I'll tell you that bad luck follows those who hurt others. It may not be today, tomorrow, or even a year from now, but believe me, it will come. Don't be surprised one day when bad shit starts coming your way.

Authors write because we love to write. We would also love to get paid for our hard work...wouldn't you?

If you like to get stuff for free, hey, join the crowd, and shop for books at reputable sites where the books say FREE, and are endorsed as such from the author. Go to Amazon right now and just type in FREE BOOKS. Hundreds if not thousands will pop up! Guess what?? Those free books are produced for free by the authors.

Many authors will agree to this: I can't wait for the day a pirate is caught and brought up on charges. I mean, I CAN'T WAIT! I'll dance like an idiot and cheer.

Pirating DOES hurt authors and is no different than any other type of theft. Don't be a dick.

Thursday, September 11, 2014

Rough in the Saddle Update

For all the wonderful and fabulous readers of the Rough in the Saddle series that want to know what's going on, I'm about to tell you.

Books 1 - 5 are out with the first four combined into two separate books in print version are available. Yay!

Book 6, Austin's Story has been accepted by Siren is due out in late November, early December.

I'm currently working on Book 7, Trevor's Story. Let me tell ya, this one will be a doozie! At the current time I don't have a projected date of completion or release date. You can watch my word counter on my side bar. I update it regularly.
Wanna meet the inspiration???


There are more books planned for the series, but it is dependent on my bitchy muse, and my crazy schedule.

Need a little teaser from Austin's Story? (Unedited)

              Out of all the fantastic opportunities Cole could get, this by far was the best. Had he prayed the night before for a hot gay man to just fall in his lap? He thought a moment. He couldn’t remember, but sort of felt like his guardian angel had swooped in, delivering his fantasy in the flesh.
       Living in a remote and sparsely populated area Cole’s prospects were limited, making Austin one hell of a find. Austin was Cole’s every desire. Tall and thick, muscled in all the right places with piercing dark eyes that gleamed with lust. Cole caught that right away and a zing of pleasure swept throughout him. Hell, he noticed it from the sale ring and thought it nothing more than wishful thinking. He was wrong and wicked ideas were currently forming in his devilish mind. To hell with the food, Cole thought. A beer and Austin bent over the tailgate of his truck sounded much more appetizing. Mmm, no. Tied the bedposts would be much, much better.

Meet my inspiration!


Stay tuned for more tales of the XYZ Ranch. When my muse is good, she is really good. When she is bad, oh hell.


Sunday, September 7, 2014

Don't Whine! Writing isn't easy!

Want to be an overnight success? If you chose writing you're barking up the wrong tree.

Like anything in life, writing is an uphill climb. Really, not joking. No one, and I mean no one hits success over night. Period. It doesn't happen. Many well known authors have been rejected more times than you can count on your fingers and toes. It's true.

I've compiled a few sites with information that should serve as a good lesson if you're ready to give up. These authors did not give up!

Anyone ever heard of Louis L'Amour? If not, please stop reading. Really???? Just kidding, but seriously?

Did you know he was rejected 200 times?

I would have crawled into a hole at ten.

Zane Grey was told, "You have no business being a writer and should give up."

Want to see more? Tell me why I should keep going.

Here is a great list of rejections:

30 Famous Authors 

My favorite movie of all time, Gone with the Wind, would not have been anything if Margaret Mitchell would have given up! She received 38 rejections! Did I stutter? 38!

The list goes on and on!

Keep in mind though we are in a new era. Anyone can publish their books and bypass the traditional rodeo. Will this make you an instant success? NO! Will it take time? YES!

First, and I've said this before, you need to write something worth reading. Will your first book be fabulous? Maybe.

I remember my first book. Good golly. I read, reread, reread again, and again. I submitted it, nervous as hell. Yeah, cloud nine when I got an acceptance. I was already living the dream, y'all!

Uh, no.

We are competing with thousands and thousands of other hopefuls!

You can't stop at one book. You can't stop at two. Writing is something that takes time...oodles of time. Building an audience, learning, growing, it is all part of the process. Then there is a whole lot of luck and being at the right place at the right time. Sure, there are Cinderella stories, but for me, hell, I can't win the lottery, and its the same thing. Remember though, for every author you see hit and skyrocket, they didn't do that overnight. What you will not see is the struggle behind the scenes.

Writing, as I've said before, isn't a get rich scheme. You need to love what you do if for no other reason than to appease the voices in your head.

To illustrate my point, I am using someone that everyone knows well. If you don't know. Wow! Let me tell you a tale, and although this person isn't a writer per say, he had an uphill climb.

Picture it, 1993, rural Oklahoma....

I had just turned eighteen. Don't laugh! Anyway, I was able to vote. Yeah, yeah. So, I had just moved back to Oklahoma where I grew up, after living in another state for around nine years. Got me a boyfriend, oh yes I did. LOL.

We were cruising in the big ol' town of Ada, Oklahoma. Yeah, we were so cool. My boyfriend had a nineteen-eighty-something Chevy, souped up with a brand spankin' new paint job. Man, I thought that guy was awesome, but I digress. So we were cruising on a hot summer night with the windows rolled down. His buddy was next to the door, me in the middle. The flashing lights of the McSwain Theatre were ahead. Cars and trucks were lined up and down the street. The marquee read, Blake Shelton.

Okay, let's get this straight, Blake was around 16 or 17 at the time if my memory serves me right. He was just a kid and locals loved him. Well, not counting my boyfriend and his buddy.

"Oh, Blake is singing at the McSwain. He's gonna be a big time singer one day." (Laughs) The boyfriend liked to make fun of Blake for some reason.

I didn't have a clue who Blake was since I'd been away for nine years or so. I thought it was pretty cool that the theater was packed for him anyway.

Weekend after weekend at different times I heard all sorts of jokes about Blake. (from goofy teens that were super cool because they were cruising instead).

What I didn't realize at the time was the fact Blake didn't just start singing, nor did he just decide he wanted to. He started when he was very young. Here's a video.

Blake was not an overnight success, wowing the country music world. He honed his craft over many years. The important thing to remember is the fact he kept doing what he loved regardless of what anyone said or thought. I don't know if he was ever bugged in school or faced any idiots like the one I dated, but I dare guess his journey wasn't an easy one. Again, he kept doing what he loved to do! Does persistence pay off? You bet.

Around the same time frame I was at a locally famous bar. I two-stepped past Doug Supernaw and Tracey Byrd. That was the same night I watched a woman cut her boyfriend's throat with a pocket knife. It took four bouncers to haul her out of the joint. No worries, he lived. She didn't cut all the way through. Again, off topic.

My point is this, everything takes practice, patience, and time. I'm sure James Patterson has many tales concerning rejections and the art of perseverance. Rejections aren't prejudiced, anyone can get them whether it be from a publisher or reader.

If you can dream it up there is more than likely an audience. How big I couldn't say, but you will need to find your genre, your style, and keep going if you love what you do. Do it for the right reason and that should be because you love to write.